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  • Embrace the Summer Solstice: A Celebration of the Season

    I love the Summer time— and I really love celebrating. Summer solstice is my ideal. It is finally here — the longest day of the year, the sun’s victory lap, and the official middle finger to cold, dark, depressive days. My favorite goal for me and my man is to be out here treating it like the whimsical rave it was always meant to be.

    In ancient history, midsummer (the celebration of the summer season) was dedicated to Pagan gods, fertility, crops etc. but I do not see why we should not be celebrating the solstice in the religious sense (thanking God’s/the Universe’s creation).

    I am talking quiet little picnics with iced drinks and polite conversation. I also want bonfires that scare the neighbors. I want to stay up until the sky finally gives up and turns dark (which, thanks to the solstice, feels like never). I want to chase the last rays of sunlight. Because this is the one day the universe hands us maximum daylight and says, “Go be reckless, animals.”

    Couple sitting on red checkered blanket having a picnic in a wildflower meadow at sunset
    A couple enjoys a sunset picnic in a vibrant wildflower meadow

    Ancient cultures got it right. They lit massive fires, danced until they dropped, mated in the fields, and basically celebrated the sun. Modern life turned it into “wear white linen and drink rosé on a rooftop.” Cute. But weak. I am here for the chaos edition.

    We start at sunrise like lunatics who respect the assignment. (Iced) coffee, loud music, minimal clothing. We drag ourselves outside because the sun is literally showing off and we are not wasting a single golden hour. Then it is beach, lake, rooftop, forest — anywhere the light hits hardest.

    Bonfire burning in a stone fire pit surrounded by wildflowers and grassy meadow at sunset
    A glowing bonfire lights up a colorful meadow at dusk with people nearby

    We eat: grilled everything, fresh fruit that drips down your arm, cold wine or champagne because yes, we are always on that bottle-a-night agenda.

    At night? Bonfire mandatory. Even if it is a little fire pit in the backyard, I want my Americana s’more snack. Throw in some herbs, some music that makes your ancestors proud, and dance like the veil between worlds is thin (because on solstice it kinda is). Light sparklers. Howl at the sky. Jump over the flames if you are brave enough. Make out like teenagers because the sun blessed the whole day (and season).

    Life is mostly gray office lighting and existential dread. The summer solstice is one of the few times the planet throws us a proper party. The sun is at its strongest, the earth is fertile, and everything feels electric. Do not spend it folding laundry or doing the mundane.

    Get outside. Get loud. Get a little unhinged. Burn something. Fuck someone. Worship the light while it lasts because in six months we will be back in the void, writing about seasonal depression.

    This is our peak. Our longest day. Our reminder that even in this clown timeline, the sun still shows up and cooks the planet just to watch us thrive.

    So celebrate like you mean it.

    Strip down. Heat up. Light it up.

    Happy solstice (I am waiting to properly celebrate with him).

    See you at the bonfire. Bring champagne.

    Radiant sun with flowing flames and glowing flowers against a starry space background
    A radiant sun surrounded by glowing floral motifs in a cosmic background
  • Celebrating Russia’s Victory Day in America: A Day of Remembrance Across Borders

    Celebrating Russia’s Victory Day in America: A Day of Remembrance Across Borders

    Every year on May 9, Russia and many post-Soviet nations (Ukraine…) pause to mark Victory Day (Den’ Pobedy), commemorating the Soviet Union’s hard-won triumph over Nazi Germany in World War II.

    While the grand military parades unfold on Red Square in Moscow, Russian-American communities across the United States quietly yet passionately observe this solemn holiday in their own way—blending deep historical pride, family stories, and cultural traditions on American soil.

    The Historical Significance

    Victory Day honors the immense sacrifices of the “Great Patriotic War.” The Soviet Union lost an estimated 27 million lives—soldiers and civilians alike—in the brutal fight against fascism. The German surrender was signed late on May 8, 1945 (Reims time), but due to the time difference, it became May 9 in Moscow. What began as a Soviet holiday gained renewed importance under leaders like Leonid Brezhnev and has become Russia’s most sacred secular observance under Vladimir Putin.

    In the U.S., where V-E Day (May 8) is acknowledged more quietly as part of the broader Allied victory, Russian immigrants and their descendants often frame May 9 as a personal and communal tribute to ancestors who fought, endured, or perished. It is less about geopolitics and more about remembering the human cost and the resilience of families.

    How Russian-Americans Celebrate

    Russian communities in places like New York, Boston, Los Angeles, Seattle, and smaller hubs turn out for events that feel both intimate and vibrant:

    • Community Gatherings and Veteran Honors: Elderly veterans or their descendants don medals and share stories at Russian community centers. In Lynn, Massachusetts, for example, the Russian-Jewish community has long gathered at places like the “Care” center for celebrations that mix food, music, and reflection.
    • The Immortal Regiment: This moving worldwide tradition sees participants carry portraits of relatives who served. Marches have taken place in Washington, D.C., and other U.S. cities, creating living tributes that connect generations.
    • Cultural Performances: Expect wartime songs like “Katyusha” (my namesake!) or “Den’ Pobedy,” folk dances, poetry readings, and screenings of classic Soviet films. Orange-and-black St. George ribbons—symbols of military glory—appear on lapels and car antennas.
    • Parades and Rallies: Smaller processions or embassy-adjacent events sometimes occur, though they can draw counter-protests amid current events. The focus for most remains personal remembrance rather than spectacle.

    Many celebrations include traditional Russian foods: borscht, Olivier salad, blini, and toasts with vodka (or champagne or wine for the ladies) to the fallen and the veterans. Younger generations often participate through school projects, social media posts of family photos, or visits to local WWII memorials.

    A Bridge Between Histories

    America itself played a crucial role in WWII through Lend-Lease aid to the Soviets and joint Allied efforts. Some older celebrations even featured moments of shared history, such as U.S. troops marching in Moscow parades in past decades.

    For Russian-Americans, Victory Day offers a way to honor one heritage while fully embracing life in the United States. It is a day of gratitude for survival and freedom, even as it carries the weight of loss. In an era of complex international relations, these community observances often emphasize universal themes: the horror of war, the value of sacrifice, and the hope for peace.

    Why It Matters in America

    Celebrating Victory Day in the U.S. highlights the richness of immigrant stories. We do not have family here, so celebrating this day with my family can be a powerful act of solidarity with the Greatest Generation—on both sides of the former Iron Curtain— even though we just have family friends over to drink.

    Thus, history lives on through the people who remember it.

    С Днём Победы — Happy Victory Day. May the lessons of the past guide us toward a better future.